Are you sick of being single and in relationships that never last?  

Sis, I hear ya… I’ve been there before, just like you!

I have EXPERIENCED the heartache, the rejection and the pain from opening up and being vulnerable to the wrong men, and I’m here to tell you IT DOESN’T HAVE TO BE THIS WAY!

Imagine waking up every morning with your soul mate by your side, knowing that someone adores you as much as you adore them.

Wouldn’t it be a dream come true to be in a trustworthy, solid, safe relationship that is built on the foundations of love, honesty, and respect?

You know you deserve a relationship that lights you up, and you are ready to go all in, open your heart and learn how to energetically attract a relationship that will last, light you up and satisfy your needs.

What’s the difference between the woman who is in a loving, lasting, soul-fulfilling relationship to a partner who magnifies her abundance and empowers her to reach even bigger dreams and desires…. 


And the woman who can never meet the right one, who always gets her heart broken, stays in mediocre, unfulfilling relationships, or has nearly given up on finding love?




(Which are the furthest from the truth, by the way.)

  • I don’t open up because I always get hurt.
  • Relationships don’t last.
  • I am not good enough for my dream, fantasy man.
  • I don’t deserve to be so happy.
  • I should be grateful and happy for what I have even if it’s not the relationship that I deeply desire to experience.
  • I lose myself in a relationship and put my partner first.
  • Relationships are complicates and it’s just way easier on my own.
  • All the good ones are taken.
  • Relationships are hard work.

Want to know what I believe about relationships?

Relationships are soulful, beautiful, playful and deep, and it is safe to trust your partner and open your heart.

Having your dream relationship is less about what you have to do in order to meet the one, it’s more about who you get to become to magnetize your dream match to you


The accelerated group program for women who are ready to go all in to find the one they want to spend their life with.

Attracting Love is so much more than mindset, dating, and putting yourself out there…

It’s the accelerated program to help you identify your personal stories limiting your capacity to love and be loved, and it’s a safe, energetic container where you upgrade your energy, expect radical results and open up to be seen, heard and held.

Attracting Love teaches the groundbreaking principles I used to go from single to engaged to the man of my dreams.

Hey Beautiful


I am Nikki Loots, a soul-aligned success coach for ambitious women who want to achieve their hearts deepest desires in evey area of their life – without losing who they are in the process or trading one desire for the other.

I live my dream life, with my fiancé and our dog in the winelands of Stellenbosch, South Africa and I can trully say I have created the life of my dreams and have the most incredible partner who is everything AND MORE that I always wanted, but it wasn’t always this way.

Let’s take a trip down memory lane with my experience with MEN…

Growing up, my dad was always my hero. He was strong and protective, but I lacked the softness, love and affection that every little girl yearns for.

I started believing that I needed to work for love and attention and that all men are emotionally closed off.

When I was 9 years old I gave a boy a valentines day card and a ‘P.S I love you’ chocolate and he didn’t give me anything in return, let alone acknowledge me.

I felt so rejected and insignificant, starting to believe that I am not good enough.

When I was a teenager I was inlove with a boy who kind-of liked me but didn’t feel the same way. I was so shy and insecure, unable to connect and have fun, and I would cry myself to sleep, fantasizing about being his girlfriend, reading our half-flirting text messages over and over again.

I started believing that love hurts and that relationships are hard.

When I was 18 years old I had my first real boyfriend, and 7 days before our one-year anniversary he cheated on me.

I started believing that it’s not safe to open my heart and I men are not trustworthy.

When I was 25 my parents got divorced… My world crumbled and I lost my identity of belonging to a loving, committed family.

I started believing that relationships don’t last!

When I was 26 I moved to Australia with my long-term boyfriend, thinking we would get married and start a family together. We both wanted a different lifestyle and wanted to follow our dreams so we stood at the Sydney international airport, crying in each other’s arms as we said our goodbyes.

I started believing that you can’t have a loving relationship AND live your dream life.

For the next 5 years I had on-off relationships, mediocre flings, and felt very unfulfilled. Instead of looking for love from a boyfriend, I decided to build up my own self-love, and I dedicated three years to deepening the relationship I had with myself.

When I worked through all my limiting beliefs, cleared out all my past baggage, and learned how to love the woman I am, I became ready to open my heart, find real love, and meet the man of my dreams.

Once I intentionally made the decision that I wanted to ATTRACT LOVE… I got to work on my inner world, becoming a woman I wanted to marry and as a result I met the man that ticks all my boxes, who I cannot imagine living without and well…

He wants to marry me too, because he put a ring on it. 

 Now I am teaching you the groundbreaking principles I used to go from single to engaged to the man of my dreams so you can experience this too!

what you can expect from Attracting Love

  • Crystalizing your desires and thinking even bolder than before- Because you do not need to settle or sacrifice in love, thinking you don’t deserve to have it all.

  • Identifying the limiting, negative beliefs you have about love- that you are not even aware of, but that are blocking you from receiving all you desires.

  •  Clearing, releasing, and letting go of the past so that you are available for a new life filled with abundance, love and trust.

  • Creating new, bold, empowering, lit-up beliefs on a subconscious level needed to receive the partner, you deeply desire.

  • Visualizing the version of yourself that you need to become in order to be open to welcoming a high-caliber, warm, loving partner and then embodying this energy right now.

  • Learning to get to know who you are, what you like, what you want, and how you want to be treated.

  • Getting out of your comfort zone, pushing the boundaries, and becoming radiant and bold to confidently ask for even more.

Don’t you feel excited already?

This Accelerator doesn’t only help you open up to receive love from others, you solidify the love you have for yourself. When you are proud of who you are and show up authentically, confidently and oozing an abundance-energy, you become a magnet to more love, opportunities and success.

What you will receive when you join

Welcome intention setting call with Nikki

Attracting Love starts with an intimate group call with Nikki and the rest of the community in the Atrracting Love Accelerated Program. This is your opportunity to set your intention for the months to follow, get to know the group, set the energy and get get clear on your desires.

3 x live group training calls with Nikki

Want to know the exact strategy I used to attract love? Yes you do! Want to know the exact energy I embodied to attract love? Of course you do! Want to learn the things that stood in my way from attracting love? Hell yes you do! Want to know what you can do to attract love? Definitely you do! 

This is what you are going to learn in these group training calls where I teach the groundbreaking principles I used to go from single to engaged so that you can implement these in your life to draw your dream partner to you. Every call starts with a live training and ends with the opportunity to get personalised coaching to help you move closer to your desire of attracting love!

3 x live group belief mapping calls with Nikki

This is where the ah-ha moments happen. These group calls are your opportunity to finally see what is blocking you from attracting love and with guidance and support get clear on the beliefs needed to breakthrough and make a change. These belief-mapping calls set you up for your 1:1 calls which is where the subconscious magic happens.

6 x 1:1 subconscious belief reprogramming sessions with Nikki

In these 1:1 calls, we re-write your subconscious conditioning and programming keeping you stuck and blocking you from love. Through the process of PSYCH-K® you’ll experience the deepest healing and transformation as you release the past and create your future. Within minutes we can reprogram beliefs that you have been carrying for your entire life, and as you rewrite the software of your mind, you change the printout of your life.

The Attracting Love supportive community, rising and expanding together to energetically manifest your heart’s desires.

Learning, growing and expanding into your most radiant self all by yourself? Hard. Lonely Confusing. Becoming your most confident, powerful self while being held in a community of high-vibing, big-thinking, heart-centered women just like you? Heck Yes! Where has this been all your life? You’ll be surrounded by women who understand the ups and downs, who are dedicated to achieving more and who support and uplift you as you grow together.

Bonus masterclasses on self-love, embodiment and more.





PAY IN FULL: $3299 


Got questions? Ask away…

What times will the calls be?

We have a very international community with women living in all areas of the world. You will have access to 2 x group calls and 2 x 1:1 calls per month. Group calls are scheduled to accommodate most of the participants, and when needed we offer them on a rotating time zone basis. This may mean that one month the times work well for you and the others you’ll catch the replay. 1:1 calls are flexible and you will have a calendar to pick your desired time so you can always make these calls.

I’m not really sure I want to be in a meaningful relationship, is this program for me?

No. Attracting Love is for women who are ready to go all in, and who know they deserve to be in heart-warming, soul-moving relationship, they just don’t know how to achieve this. All you need to know is that you want love… We will do the rest to guide the way on how to attract this.

What happens if I cannot make the calls live?

All the group calls will be recorded and we will share the replays for you to watch at your leisure. If you cannot make the live call, no worries. You can even submit any questions you want answered and it will be addressed on the call for you to watch in the replay. The 1:1 calls are scheduled personally for you and you have access to your community between calls so you will never feel like you have no support.

Are there guarantees or refunds?

No. We do not promise results or timelines in the program. All results are up to you and your growth, expansion and openness. We provide the tools, supportive, energetic space for you to expand and call in results but the rest is up to you. We never make refunds, so once you are in, you’re in.

Does the program have a definite start and end date?

Yes, Attracting Love starts at the end of January 2023 (TBC) and runs for 3 months

I am afraid of opening up in front of others. Is this the right program for me.

Most women who join my group programs have that very worry. One thing is for sure though, when opening up to a romantic partner, you have to learn how to be open to share, vulnerable, confident in yourself and your decisions, and be able to be seen and heard. This is what a group program invites you to do. Attracting Love is a space where like-minded women, with the same intention and the same fears come together so that they realize that they are not alone and that they can grow and change and from within. The program is intimate and a sacred space and a perfect opportunity to practise being the real you, infront of others so when the time comes to be real infront of your partner, this feels more natural and comfortable allowing you to feel empowered and strong.

What happens if I am already in a relationship, can I still join?

If you feel that Attracting Love is calling your name, it’s happening for a reason. 

The fundamentals you will learn in Attract Love is what I did to become magnetic to my dream partner, and create the relationship that lit me up in all areas of heart. You will also learn what we constantly do to keep our relationship strong, even when the times get tough. The program focuses a lot on your beliefs and no matter if you are in a relationship or single, changing your beliefs will result in your life changing too. If you want to find out more, schedule an exploration call with Nikki to discuss your concerns.

Can I join next time?

If you feel that it is not the right time for Attracting Love you can join the next round in the middle of 2023, however prices will increase, the bonus masterclasses will be pre-recorded and all 1:1 calls will be facilitated with a support coach.

This means that if you want the most time with Nikki on live calls and for the cheapest amount the program will ever be, then this is the time to join. 

Also, why wait to be open to love? If you feel blocked and resistance to opening up and trusting, this program is going to help you with that. If you feel that you should give it one more chance on your own to meet the one, without making the internal shifts needed to call in love, the results in your future will be a replay of the results in the past. If you want to change your results in the external world, you need to change who you are in your inner world and this is what Attracting Love is going to do- get your beliefs to support your desire, your energy to match your desire and your actions to match your desire. When we make this shift, things start to change.

Can I pay in a payment plan?

Yes! Pay in full or a 3-month payment plan option is available.


Nikki Loots is a soul-alighed success coach for ambitious women who want to you unlock their highest potential and achieve all their desires in love, money and life.

As an expert in mindset, self-love and manifesting, she knows the formula to help you achieve your big goals and manifest even bigger dreams.

Nikki was wired for success and growing up in a high-performance sporting family, excellence was all around her. In everything she did, she always strived to be the best and

at the age of 25, after burning out from the high demands of the luxury super yachting industry, she travelled through South East Asia for 3 years searching for balance, clarity and the meaning of life.

She completed her yoga teacher training in Australia, meditation teacher training in India, learned about tantra and inner healing in Thailand and self-expression and expansion in Bali. 

When Nikki discovered the power of the subconscious mind she saw radical shifts in her life and everything drastically changed for her.

She moved from scarcity to abundance.

Single to engaged.

Self-doubt to self-love and living her dream life.

These days Nikki lives with her Fiancé and puppy in their home amongst the vineyards in Stellenbosch, South Africa. She mentors ambitious women who want more from life, guiding them how to unlock your fullest potential by finding the missing piece of the puzzle to step up into bigger success than ever before.