About me
HI THERE
I’m Nikki
Self-love expert, mindset mentor, and Psych-K® facilitator.
I am here as your biggest supporter to help you access your fullest potential, stepping into your most radiant, confident self, like never before!
I believe that we are constantly creating our realities, and our outer-world is merely a reflection of our inner-world.
That means that when you transform the relationship you have with yourself, building inner-joy, clarity, confidence, and peace, your outer-world starts changing to match who you are.
After years of my own self-discovery journey unlocking my inner-power and strength, I have shifted from feeling lost, unsure, and desperately seeking more, to empowered, self-secure, and filled with clarity and peace.
I have come to deeply understand one universal truth: The key to living a purposeful life, where you achieve your dreams and feel fulfilled, lies in cultivating an unbreakable, loving relationship with yourself.
That is why I’m on a global mission to help thousands of women break free from their fears, un-become who they think they need to be, take happiness into their own hands, and create a life they absolutely adore!
If you’ve ever felt like you’re meant for more. Like you’re ready to name and claim your deepest desires, and unlock your power within…
Buckle up, because this adventure promises to be one of self-discovery, growth and unwavering empowerment.
If you are ready to create a life where you are the leading role, the one who wakes up feeling whole, complete, fulfilled, and alive…
Take my hand, I’ll lead the way.
It’s time to become the independent, vibrant
woman you know you’re born to be!
Here is my story.
Growing up in a high-performance sporting family, I always wanted to BE SOMEBODY.
My dad was an Olympic Pole Vault Coach, and I grew up on the athletics track with the World’s #1 athletes around me. Being surrounded by this professionalism, I soon adopted the excellence mindset, and I too wanted to be the best in everything I did.
Early on I created a belief: In order to
be happy, I need to be perfect.
The perfect daughter, the perfect student, the perfect athlete. The perfect little girl.
I put so much pressure on myself to excel at everything I did (fun fact: I was the #1 South African pole-vaulter at school for 5 years) but when I didn’t achieve the results I wanted, in flooded the disappointment, the feeling of inadequacy, and the lack of self-love.
When I turned 21 years old, after graduating from Stellenbosch University with a Sport Science degree, I joined the Super Yachting industry and I was completely hooked. Life was one heck-of-a-ride! Imagine “Below Deck” for seven years, making bundles of money, meeting the rich and famous, and travelling the world.
On paper, I had it all: The boyfriend, the fit body, money, friends, family, and a 10 year plan… But on the inside I was empty. I was filled with anxiety and stress, and I cried myself to sleep at night, longing for more.
At the age of 27, I was burned out, unfulfilled, exhausted and lost.
I broke up with my long term boyfriend because we wanted different things in life. I left the only career I ever knew, with no plan for the future. I moved back home, and moved in with my Dad, and I found myself sitting on the kitchen floor, tears running down my face, crying, “What do I do now?”
This was the time to follow my heart!
My desire for a spiritual journey lead me to Thailand, and I spent the next three years travelling through South East Asia searching to find myself and what it means to be happy.
I did my yoga teacher-training course in Australia, my meditation teacher training course in India, and my Psych-K® Master’s training in South Africa. I spent three years learning from teachers, coaches, and mentors, and I dived into every healing modality I could find.
What started out as a search for inner happiness quickly turned into a quest for inner love!
When I dedicated all my energy into my self-love journey that is when everything changed.
I learned how to accept who I really am, not who I thought I needed to be.
I let go of perfectionism and needing to constantly prove myself.
I unravelled my limiting beliefs and negative self-talk.
I became my own best friend and biggest supporter in life.
After years of inner-healing, and self-discovery I can finally say I am happy. Not because of the the goals I’ve achieved, but because I’ve created the deepest, unwavering relationship with myself.
I feel confident, secure, independent and empowered, and all the tools, lessons and experiences I have had is what I’m sharing with you, on your own self-love journey.
When you change the relationship you have with yourself, your life starts to change to match who you are!
These days I live an absolute abundant, happy and fulfilling life, with my fiancé, Marc and our fur-baby Ruby in the winelands of Stellenbosch, South Africa.
I can truly say that I have finally created a life that I love, and I without a doubt believe that you can create this too.
If you are ready to change your mindset, raise your energy, and transform the relationship you have with yourself so that you feel empowered, complete and whole… I’d love to walk this journey with you!
Stick with me, I’ll show you how
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Derryn
Roxanne
Before, I was in a phase of my life where I felt lost, unhappy, unable to control my emotions and confused about where to go in life. Now I can confidently say that I feel comfortable in my own skin and filled with gratitude and self-love and on a new path of self-discovery.
Nikki is a ray of sunshine that I looked forward to chatting to in our calls every week and she is full of the wisdom that really makes her an amazing self-love guru!
Jessica
I entered thinking I knew who I was, but was just lacking a bit of self-love and confidence. I realised that by loving myself completely, and discovering every single inch of me was I able to fully BE ME! This program was one of the most transformational months for me, and, regardless of what age, stage of your life, or what you think you want/need to work on, this is a program that every single person will relate to and benefit from.
events and retreats
Would you like to book me as your speaker or facilitator at your event or retreat?
It fills my heart with joy to witness the transformative power that self love, women empowerment, and confidence can bring into the lives of extra ordinary women. As a passionate speaker and retreat facilitator, my purpose is to ignite a spark within each and every one of you, reminding you of your inherent worth, and celebrating the unique journey you are on.
Self love is not a luxury, it is a fundamental necessity for our overall well-being. It is about embracing our strengths and accepting our imperfections, and recognizing that we are deserving of love, respect, and happiness. Through sharing my personal story, and the tools I have learned to build radical self-love, confidence, and fulfilment, I aim to inspire women to step into their personal power, and access their inner strength.
My events and retreats encourage and empower women to rise above challenges, claim their voice, and create a life that aligns with their true desires. I want to see women radiate with self-assurance, knowing that they are capable of achieving greatness, and making a positive impact in the world.
Together we can create a ripple effect of love and empowerment that reaches far beyond ourselves, inspiring women from all walks of life to embrace their authentic selves and live their best lives.
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